My Story!

The years have gone by so fast and its not until I look back over everything that has happened that I realise I have been through a lot and achieved a lot too.

I got married at 21 and had my first child at 21, things were pretty good, six years later, after fertility treatment, I had my second child. Shortly after she was born I left my Husband because his behaviour was unreasonable and he did nothing but watch sport on the tv and shout at the kids.

I spent a few months on my own with the kids and it wasn’t long before I met someone new. Things moved along really quickly and it wasn’t long before he moved in. Things were going really well and he was great with the kids. After about 2 years he started to change and things became quiet difficult at times. He was a compulsive lier! Over the course of a 10 year relationship he left or had affairs numerous times but each time it didn’t work out he would come back, I would allow him to come back! He would start to call me constantly, then he would start with the suicide threats until I gave in. Each time he would promise to get help and sort himself out. The lies were incredible and his moods would change instantly. He put me in hospital once after he decided to beat me up. He told everyone that his dad sexually assaulted him on a train when he was a child and all sorts of other nonsense because he was an attention seeker and he basically didn’t know the difference between truth and lies.

When things were good, they were really good but when things were bad, they were really bad. During this time I had my third child, which was a real shock as I would told I would never have any more children unless I underwent more fertility treatment!

At the time we had a cake business that was doing really well. He was a smooth talker and a charmer so getting clients was easy for him. One day I receive a complaint that a birthday cake hadn’t arrived so I obviously questioned him about it, of course I got nothing but lies from him. He would go and see the clients and take the deposits, but he wasn’t putting it all through the books so the orders couldn’t be put through the books either. He started going out a lot and would disappear over night. One night he told me that he had been locked up for being drunk and disorderly, yet another lie. A couple of days later I got a call from a bride who was incredibly upset that her wedding cake hadn’t arrived!! There were no records of this order of course. This was my final tipping point, I had people arriving at my house because they hadn’t received orders and he wasn’t answering his phone. I called the police and reported what had happened, packed his stuff, left it outside and told him to collect it.

It was at this point I decided enough was enough and it was only me that could change all this. He was never going to have a hold over me again and neither was anyone else. Luckily for me neither of the kids dad’s were really interested in them so I never had to share them, they were just mine. Of course this meant they didn’t pay child maintenance or have them at all but I was very ok with this. It was them that kept me going.

I Decided to have my very first Tarot reading. He always joked “what do you think you are psychic” because I would know exactly when I would received the suicide threats. So I thought I would give it a go. I called a lovely lady called Trish who came to see me a few days later. I had a great reading with her and she really set me off on a new path. She confirmed that yes I was Psychic and I should be working as a healer. She initiated me into Reiki 1 and 2. I joined a spiritual group where I learned how to read Tarot and Angel cards, meditate and connect with my guides. I took a course in crystal healing and finished my Reiki master/teacher degree. I met some lovely people along my journey and I also met some not so lovely people. I had a really good clearing of all the things that didn’t serve me including friends and sadly one of my teachers as she had a very strange way of treating pupils that were doing really well for themselves. I got a job on Psychic Today and things were looking really good.

Within a few weeks of ending the relationship my youngest daughter had a horrific accident. My eldest daughter for some unknown reason lit a tea light candle and put it on the coffee table. My youngest daughter sat on the table not realising there was a candle on it and it set her dress alight, it was a dressing up dress which was highly flamable. I was downstairs at this time, we lived in a town house. My eldest daughter dragged her down the stairs with her dress alight and one of my friends dropped and rolled her and got her in a cold shower whilst we called the ambulance. She was taken to our local hospital and then rushed to a burns unit just over an hour away. The burns on her back were severe, her arms, bottom and hair were not as bad. She was in the hospital for 10 days and sent home. After a day at home she was rushed back in to under go surgery as she wasn’t healing and she had become infected. She had to have skin graphs on her back and was in hospital for another 5 days. My friends were great helping out with my other daughter, my son was pretty self sufficient at this time. Whist I was at the hospital I had a call from my friend telling me that my other daughter was really unwell. I left my youngest daughter for a few hours to check on my other daughter. I told her I would be back in a few hours. My other daughter was complaining of belly ache and rolling around on the floor. She was a proper drama queen, so I told her I was going to spend some time with her, she really didn’t need to roll around the floor. I though she was just a bit jealous as I hadn’t seen her much over the last 10 days. She carried on so I called the doctor, as I did she was very sick and it was green! They made an emergency appointment for me to take her straight in. The doctor checked her over and sent her straight to the Hospital with suspected appendicitis! The hospital took one look at her and she was in theatre within 15 minutes of arriving. When they came out to tell me how she was doing they informed me it was about to burst! She had only been unwell for a few hours, I was really shocked, I had no idea it could happen so fast. I now had to choose which daughter to spend the night with, in which hospital and in which county!

My eldest was released the following afternoon and went straight to my mums so that I could go back to the other hospital and be with my youngest. My youngest recovered well, the skin graphs took and I did lots of Reiki and massage with her. The doctors were impressed at the speed she was recovering. We had to go to the hospital 3 times a week to change dressings, eventually it went down to two, then one and after a year we didn’t have to go back. The trips were taking up most of my time as it was 90 minutes each way and would just get back in time to get my other two from school.

I continued my study and focused on just me and kids. I put everything I learned into practice. I used gratitude and forgiveness on a daily basis to help me to leave the past behind me and focus on my present moment. I was learning so much and I wanted to share all of this with my clients so I took a life coaching course and many other courses so that I could build programs and session to help my friends and my clients.

After four years of my friends nagging me to get out and meet people (I do like my own company and am perfectly happy on my own) I gave in and let one of my friends build me a profile on an internet dating site. It was fun for about an hour but it really didn’t sit right with me so I asked her to take it down. I would find another way to meet someone. I had read the book the secret and studied the law of attraction and cosmic ordering, so I thought it would be a great idea to cosmically order my perfect partner. So I did and 3 weeks later he arrived!! He has two children so my family has grown from 4 to 7, it can be very hectic when we are all together. I will tell you more about this in another article.

We went on holiday to Rome, it was fantastic, we loved it. We talked a lot when we got back about how lovely it would be to move to Italy, but we had no idea how we could make this happen. A year later we took my daughters to Rome and at that point we decided we were moving to Italy! We had no idea where in Italy we were moving to but we were moving. 8 months later we moved here! I will share with you exactly how we manifested this in another article.

I now have my dream home, my perfect partner and everything else I want, but that doesn’t mean life is always easy! Since we moved here back in July mother nature has certainly had something to say about it. Within 4 weeks of being here we experienced our first earthquake, and have had many, many more since. They hadn’t had an earthquake in this part of Italy for nearly 20 years! Then we experienced the Sirocco winds that tore though our land and finally this month more snow than ever. So to say thing have been exciting here is an understatement!

Life hasn’t always been easy and I have been through my fair share of difficult times but that isn’t going to stop me getting what I want and helping other make major changes in their lives too. My mum will tell you I am one of the unluckiest people ever because nothing ever goes right or doesn’t happen easily, the way I planned or without problems. But I still make it happen!

If you would like to know more about my programs and packages to help you leave the past behind you and create a life you are excited about then please visit my website.

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101 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Starting 2017!

“Successful People Reflect On Their Progress Before They Start The New Year”

2016

Reflect On The 9 Most Important Parts Of Your Life

Some People Asked Me How Do I Reflect, So I Took Some Time And I Have Listed Some Questions I Ask Myself To Reflect Every Year 😉 I Hope It Helps You 😉

Take 1 Hour In Peace  To Go Over The Following List Before You Start Taking Action In 2017, It Can Make All The Difference To Create A Successful Year!

What Did I Learn In 2016 ? What Did I Achieve In 2016?
How Does This Make Me Feel?

What Did I Learn From Failure And Success?
What Am I Proud Of?

Where Am I Balanced And Unbalanced In My Life?

What Do I Want To Improve In 2017?

What Do I Want To Achieve In 2017?

What Were My 5 Biggest Strengths In 2016?

What Are My 3 Weaknesses That I Can Improve To Perform Better?

Am I Happy About My Result?
What Am I Not Happy About And Why?

How Can I Make It Better?

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1. My Health

Did My Health Improve In 2016?

Did I Gain Weight Or Lose Weight?

Did I Improve My Stamina? How Was My Eating Habit, Healthy Or Unhealthy?

How Many Times I Exercise A Week? Did I Follow My Health Plan?

Is My Body Getting All The Right Nutrition? Did I Feel Energetic, Younger Or Older In 2016?

How Did I Deal With Stress? Whats My Health Goal For 2017?

2. My Surroundings

Who Are The 5-10 People I Spend The Most Time With In 2016?

Are They Bringing Me Up Or Down? Are They Mostly Negative Or Positive?

Are They Big Thinkers Or Small Thinkers? Do We Have Unconditional Love Or Conditional Love?

How Much Are They Earning A Month? Are They Working On Themselves Every Day To Create A Better Life?

Did I Make New Positive Friends In 2016 That Encourage Me To Follow My Dreams? Help Me To Think Bigger? Give Me A Vision Of Better Life?

How Can I Improve My Surrounding In 2017?

3. Self Education

What Books Did I Read In 2016 That Made A Positive Impact In My Life? What Self-Help Seminars Did I Attend? What Tapes I Listen To That Empower Me?

Am I Reading The Right Books To Bring Me To The Goal I Want To Achieve?

Am I Waiting For Somebody To Inspire Me Or Do I Inspire Myself?

Which People Did I Learn The Most From?

What Do I Want To Learn In 2017?

4. Money Management

How Did I Manage My Money In 2016? Did I Had A Plan? Did I Save? Invest Back In My Business?

Did I Give Charity?

What Is My Plan For 2017?

What Is My Plan To Protect My Wealth From Inflation?

Is My Money Working For Me?

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5. Business Skills

How Did I Follow My Business Plan In 2016?

Am I Doing The Business As A Hobby Or As A Business?

Did I Keep Gauges? What Did I Learn From My Gauges?
Is This Number Going To Bring Me Where I Want To Go?
How Can I Improve This Number?

What Business Skill Do I Want To Learn In 2017?

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6. Love And Relationships

How Loved Did I Feel In 2016?
How Did I Show My Love To My Friends, Family And My Love?

Did I Spend Quality Time With My Friends And Family In 2016?

Did I Love Myself In 2016? How Did I Practice Self Love?

Did I Easily Forgive Myself In 2016?

What Do I Still Carry With Me That I Want To Let Go Before I Start 2017?
Did I Forgive Others?

How Did I Practice Forgiveness?

Take Time To Forgive Now And Let Go 😉 Did I Love Conditionally Or Unconditionally?

What Do I Want To Improve In My Relationships And Love Life For 2017?

What Goals Do I Have Regarding Family, Love And Friends In 2017?

How Can I Make My Relationships More Fulfilling?

7. My Emotions

Did I Spend Most Of My Time Thinking Negative, Blaming, Complaining What I Do Not Have? Living In Fear? Concerned About What Other People Think?

Or Did I Spend Most Of My Time Being Grateful, Focusing On The Good I Have And The Future I Can Build? Helping Others?

What Emotions Do I Want To Have The Most In 2017?

8. My Habits

What Daily Habits Help Me To Create A Better Life And Growing Business?

What Negative Habits Holding Me Back?

What New Empowering Habits I Can Create For 2017?

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9. Spirituality

Did I Take Time To Sit Quite And Meditate?
How Can I Do This More In 2017?

Was I At Peace With Myself?  Or Was My Mind Too Busy?
How Can I Be More At Peace With Myself In The World In 2017?

Did I Take Time To Connect With God/The Universe?
How Can I Connect More With The Universe/God?

Do I Feel Lonely Most Of The Time Or Can I Be Happy With Myself?
How Can I Be More Happy With Myself In 2017?

Do I Have Faith Or Do Worry Too Much?
Do I Act Out Of Love Or Out Of Fear?

Did I Follow My Heart? Did I Follow My Intuition?
Am I Doing My Passion?
Following My Hearts Desire?

Am I Spending Time Quite In Nature?

Am I Grateful Everyday For The Simple Things In Life?  Am I Happy In The Now?
Was I Flowing In The Present Or Always In The Future With My Mind?
How Can I Be More Present In 2017?

What Daily Habits Can I Create In 2017 To Be More Present, More In The Flow With Nature, More At Peace With Myself And More Connected With God?

What New Empowering Habits I Can Create For 2017?

Commitment:

What Am I Committed To Change And Improve And Why?

Do I Need A Mentor or A Coach?

My Why:

What Is My BIG WHY To Improve My Life?

–> If You Are Serious About Creating An Amazing 2017 Get Yourself A Success Planner And Make All Your New Year Resolutions A Reality 😉

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A 12 Month Law Of Attraction Planner For Him & Her

The 12 Months Law Of Attraction Planner Super A5 And B5 Size Is Now In Stock!

What Is Different From The 30 Day Law Of Attraction Planner?

We Added A Few New Features To The 12 Month Weekly Planner:

  • Out Foldable Vision Board And Goals, So You Can Stay Focused On Your Year Goals
  • When You Fill In Your Week Plan (See Picture Below)
  • My Most Important Life Goals Section – Helps You To Create Harmonic Goals
  • Plan Your Journey – Helps You Plan Your Success On All Levels
  • How Will I Make It Happen Section
  • Monthly Reflection Page
  • Monthly Overview, Goals And Priorities
  • 24 Dot Gridded Pages To Get Creative
  • 24 Blank Pages To Draw Or Write Down Ideas
  • Monthly 2 Dot Gridded Ideas And Notes Pages
  • Super Smooth High Quality 100 Gr Thick Paper (About 245 Pages)
  • Weekly Planning Overview (56 Weeks, 112 Pages)
  • Calendar for 2017, 2018 and 2019

 

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The Law of Attraction

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The law of attraction is the universal law that says “ like attracts like”, and that by using this process we can bring into our lives the things that we want. Every thought we have goes out into the universe and the universe brings us back what we have thought about, whether that thought is negative or positive. The universe cannot distinguish between the things we want and the things we don’t, it just reacts to the thought patterns we have.

Einstein proved that everything in the universe is made of energy and this energy vibrates on different frequencies. The law of attraction is one of the most powerful universal laws this law states that whatever we send out to the universe we get back, like attracts like. So if we are sending out negative thoughts and emotions we will get back more negative thoughts and emotions. If we send out positive thoughts and emotions we will get back positive thoughts and emotions. Our thoughts have a frequency and are magnetic, as we think our thoughts we magnetically attract like thoughts.

Imagine if you are constantly thinking negative thoughts about your job, such as  “I detest my job” guess what, the universe will bring in thoughts about your job which in turn will bring in more things to dislike about your job. Therefore if you don’t like you job, do something about it, nothing is going to change unless you put in the effort to do something about it and then take action. Use the law of attraction to make the changes you would like in life.

If you are a positive person and are sending out lots of positive thoughts you give the universe the opportunity to bring in more positive thoughts. Let’s say you love your job. You wake up in the morning excited to go to work, to see your colleagues, clients etc. not only do you have a positive mind set but you are also sending thoughts out that you are happy, excited etc. guess what the universe will  bring in more thoughts about liking your job and you will have more things to be happy and excited about.

It is important to understand that our thoughts become manifestations, our thoughts become our life! If we take the time to look back at the past we can see how we brought things to us, they were our thoughts. Maybe we spent a lot of time thinking about debt, and now we have a lot of debt, maybe we spent a lot of time thinking we were not worthy of the wonderful relationship we had with our partner and now that relationship is over.  Maybe we spent a lot of time thinking about our dream house and now we are living in that dream house.

One of the reasons that people do not have the things they want in their lives is because they spend more time thinking about the things they don’t want rather than the things they do want.  The universe doesn’t work with negatives like don’t, no and not. It just removes these words so it is very important to think about your thoughts. For example “I don’t want to miss the bus.” The universe hears I want to miss the bus, and your day just gets worse from here on in! Instead of I don’t want to miss the bus change it to a positive, I will arrive at the bus stop in plenty of time.

Of course it is impossible to monitor every single thought we have as we have so many in a day. Firstly concentrate on the things you would like to change! Think about the perfect job, the perfect body, abundance etc. and go from there.

The law of attraction is a three step process: ask, believe and receive. It is really that simple and there are some great tools that you can use to help you to manifest the life you desire. We are the creators of our  lives and our dreams and we have the power to manifest anything we wish.

Ask – send out the thoughts of the things you would like with feeling, feel what it would be like to have the things you want.

Believe – believe that you deserve them and believe that the universe will deliver them, you don’t need to worry about how they will be delivered, just believe that they will.

Receive – now you have done the hard work, be open to receiving what you have asked for, however it arrives.

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Tools to help you to use this three step process.

There are many tools available to help us with taking control of our lives and manifesting the life we deserve, here are a few that I have found very helpful.

Meditation – helps quieten the mind so you can focus on the things you truly desire

Positive thought – brings in more things to be positive about.

Affirmations – positive statements that affirm we have what we want.

Gratitude – the more we are grateful for the more the universe will bring us to be grateful for. For more information on gratitude please click here

Visualisation – see the things you want, visualise and imagine what they look like.

Feelings – feel excited about having the things you want, feel the feelings of having everything you want.

Vision Boarding – a collage of pictures you can see often to help you visualise what you want. For more information on vision board please click here

Intention – intend to have the things you desire.

Releasing blockages – we may have blockages that stop us from having the things we desire like being uncomfortable around money, or feeling that you don’t deserve money so releasing any blockages is necessary in order to receive.

Forgiveness – when we forgive we are letting go of past issues and living in the present. Please find more information on forgiveness here and forgiveness rituals here

Working with the moons phases – the moon is a very powerful energy and its phases have been used for hundreds of years. There is a phase for removing the things you want and one for bringing in the things you desire. Article here

Goal setting – setting goals helps us to have focus and to see the things we have achieved.

Cosmic ordering – allows us to have real focus on what we want and is a ritual to send out to the universe what we truly desire.

Speak your truth – when we speak from our hearts, we speak our truth and it is very liberating.

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How can a personal intuitive reading help me?

An intuitive tarot reading can help guide and inspire you in so many different ways as well as give validation and clarity that will help you to know you are on the right path.

During a Personal Intuitive reading with me I will tune into your energies to help guide you, inspire you and motivate you to make positive changes around you. At the beginning of a reading I will explain to you exactly how I work, how I pick up on your feelings and how I use  Tarot and oracle cards to help guide you.

What will an intuitive reading give you?

  • Clarity and insight into your life and life purpose
  • Discover where any blocks are holding you back and what to do about them
  • Feel excited, confident and motivated about the next steps in your life
  • Give you an action plan of what to do next
  • Feel at ease, motivated and more confident about where you are going. 
  • Tools to use after our session together to help you make the changes you want and need

During our session together we will work with the areas detailed below. I will use both my intuition and coaching experience to help you gain clarity and insight and help you to plan the next steps in creating your dream life and give you some tools to help you get started.

We will look at:

  • Where you are now
  • What is stopping you from creating change
  • Where you want to be and your life purpose

The session will include looking at your emotions, any negative thought patterns that are holding you back and what actions you can take to help to move you forwards.

The Personal Intuitive reading is all about you, and will pick up on how you feel about yourself and those around you. You will have the opportunity to ask questions that directly relate to you and be fully interactive in this session.

Is an intuitive reading scary or a bit woo woo?

Not at all, my readings are designed to help give you guidance, clarity, and motivation as well as to inspire you and give you an action plan of what you need to do to move your life forwards in a really positive direction that is in line with your life purpose.

Because I offer a lot of practical advice and coaching during my readings they could be viewed as a form of coaching session for your soul, guiding it forwards and teaching you to listen to what it is really telling you.

For more information and to book your 60 minute Intuitive Reading please click here.

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